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“He could never treat you like I can”!

 

 

 

 

 

 

The ugly truth is that while they say ‘Money can’t buy you love’, some are completely absorbed with trying to prove that it can!! Well, this is where it gets really unpleasantly in need of a lil’ lypo……….it can! Just take a look around; relationships are being dictated on the premise of money and prestige all over the divine ones’ green acres. You think that when you observe the oddest couples, it’s cute! Or how easily accepting certain women are in falling for some gents…make no mistake! That team you’re so intrigued by in the park of so seemingly content families; total opposites and unlikelies? Guess what the foundation of their union might be?!

You can find this out by taking a simple gander at their possessions and attitudes. What leverage might be apparent with him that is just a few more years away for the average Joe? Try this on for size. He’s a banking exec. for Wells Fargo that drives the new XJ http://www.jaguar.com/us/en/#/new_xj/?campaignid=L0000726  on the weekends and the type that can afford to wear Ralph Lauren european sweaters on a trip to the zoo with the wife and kids…Pretty tough to compete with someone who’s casual watch could pay off your house plus put a couple bucks in your investment portfolio!

This is where things reach a grey area for me. Let’s put the Ray-Ban’s back in the case and lose the Platinum Discover for a sec! Who is this guy without his wallet? What is his wife’s ideals according to lifestyle and comfort? It should be clear that from the moment some couples say “I might” that money played a significant role in the “I do”! Don’t fool yourself, true love DOES exist in the context it was meant but if we’re foregoing building something tangible from sticks and rubble and positioning wealth at the summit of our hierarchy, all we will find is a pile of cosmetic and surface level ‘things’ that are replacing values. Finances are something a couple creates and nurtures as a unit. Back to ‘If it looks like a duck’.

My hopes are that you use insight to gain a distinct vantage-point with relation to finding your hearts’ calling. Too much of anything outside of commitment in a relationship threatens the natural essence of your ‘thing’. I leave you with a question of morality…Can all the abundance obtained in life outweigh the gravity of love in its purest form?

 

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