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(Sudden Impact)

Once upon a time, long ago the end results of relationships were about as hard to figure out as 3rd grade Social Studies. Meet a nice person, go out a few times, tackle the issue of whether or not to have sex with this person and if you did, possibly make arrangements for a cozy future of spending recess trying to figure out what the two of your kids would look like and how pretty your names seemed together written over again side by side on your spiral notebook. Damn! I miss the good ol’ days… What the hell ever happened to mixtapes, btw?

Was anyone watching as time reconfigured the entire language of dating? I mean, how did we go from a nation of handholders and movie theater cuddlers to speed-date, need for carnal purging, sexually carnivorous, baby, I only fucked your bff cuz I was drunkards?! Well, one attachment that recurs in my nightmares is the fact that we have let the world dictate the process! There’s no more he’s a playa and she’s a slut! Our once mighty and undaunted repertoire of protective English terminology has been reduced to a meaningless cache of catch phrases and online joviality. Folks, just when, where and especially how did we stop giving a shit about each other in love? Promiscuity is now acceptable and even pronounced through our world-wide media monster that’s beginning to resemble a Chaney Frankenstein. No shit! Where are our inquisitors and torch parties that insisted that we remain ethical?

We have taken full advantage of God’s free will and the lack of understanding has led us to a place of hodge-podge meniality and trendy promise breaking if for nothing else but to indulge us into further displacement and disappointment. Finding out the truth of just how many of us really don’t care is the scary part and when expressing yourself from the heart only lends tragedy to your life, something is very amiss and we can only hope that there is change in the future.

No one inherently feels the need to shatter someones feelings or mislead another to the point of manic depression but it does happen on a daily basis and unless there is a changing of the guard, the Royal jewels are in jeopardy of being ‘misplaced’…

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One Response to “(Sudden Impact)”

  1. it used to be the people would enter into relationships with purposeful intent of eventually getting married. Now people want the joys of romance without the repsonsiblity of committment.


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