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The Infinite Possibilities in Life and Love

Utopia………..

 

 

 

 

This is a place that some believe truly exists. If so, adventurers will spend their lives searching for it. Tip for those brave souls… I’d be willing to bet that it must be somewhere around Atlantis. The problem with utopia in respect to relationships is that this glorious paradise of flawless human perfection is that it seeks to eliminate the possibility of being able to meet it’s expectations in the real cosmos.

The logic:

  • I’m an avid believer in having and setting goals for yourself but these should always remain fair and realistic. Reach for the stars, land in the clouds still leaves room for reaching your destination without the disappointment of complete failure. In other words, when your level of expectation is far too great, anything less becomes unacceptable.

 

  • Everyone deserves the best out of life but we’re limiting our resources when we become too unattainable! Setting ourselves up for failure and planting landmines around our personal space is what happens when we allow fantasy to overcome non-fiction.

Thought for the day:

Dreams of grandeur seduce us and remove our focus from the physical world environment and cast us into the land of unobtainable ideals.

Take out the trash! Do this at least monthly or else the landfill in your backyard will bring the city in to regulate. 

Utopia would surely be compromised by the overflow of all the complimentary pizza boxes and twice-read Harlequin romances you’ve finally decided to discard. Tough love! Get off the ‘Polar Express’….. 

Feb 9, 2010: While this remains a place of intrigue, I do believe the mystery has been relegated to the annals of reality with due concern for time limitations. Only so much can be accomplished in 60 or 70 years, which by the way is about the life expectancy for the average man nowadays. Perfection takes it’s place on Olympus right next to Hera and Zeus with no delusions. Standard hopes are healthy. Meeting half of what you want is decent. 3- 4ths, exceptional. The whole…..Impossible! I, myself realized this cold, hard fact many years ago and though I am not responsible for the outpour of questions as to why certainties were not met, I feel as though I am. When you replace one piece of unfinished business with another or transfer displaced energy, you’re making it not only illogical but improbable that anyone can meet, let alone fulfill your absolute and diametric requirements! Don’t ever feel the need to settle. But do release the yokes of burden from around your expectations……………………. 

Feb 20, 2010: If everything were as it seemed, we’d all be walking around so oblivious to the actuality of things that J. Depp’s ‘Alice in Wonderland’ would be considered a standardized curricculum. Utopia’s a tough visit for those of us catching the ferry across the chocolate river to the lollipop fields. Makes Gabriel’s Island appear like a corner convenience store. Anyway, there’s no REAL way to entertain thoughts of true happiness here so rather than even try I’m only going to say that this is a place for the adventure-hearted individuals that feel they need to compare Utopia with Cleveland, Ohio. I’m not asking any of the dreamers (myself being a very vivid one) to abandon their scape, I’m simply suggesting that you don’t expect anyone to meet you here anytime within the first 50 dates.

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